This is a question that no one can seem to answer but I think that I am going to take a stab at it.
First of all, lets define hood men. According to the urban dictionary, a hood man is someone that was born in the hood who struggles through childhood to make it out of the hood, but never leaves. It’s in your blood. He is also humble and real. He’s learned to live with a smile despite the sadness inside. Please understand, the hood has no color!
With all of those qualities, some women start to feel sorry for them. From experience, I’ve noticed that the hood man loves harder, he takes care of his woman. However, sometimes that comes with a heavy price tag depending on his current lifestyle. There’s also the educated hood man. He is dangerous. He is in high demand on the market and very rare to come across, especially if he’s willing to settle down. I’ve dated both and of course I prefer the second option. I say that because he is goal driven to do better and he will also push you to do better. He is a natural born educated hustler. Tasty.
I say that to say this, some women date option A because they are searching for something. We are all searching for something at the end of the day however, some educated women thinks that because they have reached a certain credential in their lives that they can fix the world. Some people are so broken and damaged that they aren’t receptive of healing. I was that person. I was a cocky dater because I have a lot going for myself. Until I had that humbling experience. It’s not about me, it’s about the other person and if they are truly ready to be vulnerable. Most hood men haven’t healed, we want them to be but they have to be willing to do the work. Ladies, we have to help them. Let’s lend a hand to heal our men from past trauma. If we aren’t willing to do this, then you cannot want a long-term relationship with him and if he isn’t willing to do the work, then it’s not going to work.
I hope that you’ve enjoyed this post.